Archive for May, 2012

Do You Make A Difference In Your Job?

Sunday, May 20th, 2012

The answer to this question depends on how you define “making a difference”.

For some, it’s about having enough latitude and autonomy to make effective decisions; for others, it might be engaging in work that supports a cause or the greater good. However you define this value will provide important clues about where you’ll find a good fit.

At midlife and beyond, finding meaning in work emerges as a key goal, and replaces competency-building as a top spot in your job search criteria. Research now shows that making a difference becomes more and more important as you age.

An increased awareness on time passing and your own mortality can instill a compelling desire to leave a mark and make a contribution. This desire may send you off in a new direction where you create a legacy to leave behind, or, in a less dramatic way, you might simply reframe your current work and find ways to make a difference without ever leaving your job.

Here are a few steps you might take to address your need to make a difference:

  • Give yourself a couple of months to evaluate your current job and the opportunties to make a difference right where you are working.
  • Begin each day with the question: How might I make a difference today? Then be on the lookout for ways you can respond to a need.
  • Acknowledge the ways you already make a difference. If they don’t seem to be “enough”, then ask yourself what’s missing.
  • Identify the specific skills and abilities you currently use at work. Ask yourself if applying these in another venue would be more satisfying.
  • Before making a drastic change that you have not researched, consider finding a volunteer opportunity in the community to test out a contribution you’d like to make.
  • If you decide to go in another direction, you will need to consider how to “re-brand” yourself through your resume, Linkedin profile and cover letter.
  • Make sure that the way you present yourself is consistent with the new way you want to be seen.

What Color Is Your Job?

Sunday, May 6th, 2012

“My job is ‘beige’.”

That’s how a client recently began her first session with me.

As you might imagine, her descriptive statement began an interesting discussion about how she perceived her work. Despite many friends thinking she had the ideal job, my client admitted that she felt flat about it. You know–kind of how you’d see “beige” in a rainbow of possibilities.

The fact is, if you’re not interested in your work, terrific benefits, great compensation or prestige aren’t likey to change your attitude. Furthermore, feedback from others about how wonderful they think your job is can diminish your inner voice that says, “This job is not for me”.

When external messages conflict with internal ones, you may feel stuck and at an impasse about what to do.

The essential step in this case is to focus on the inner messages and sort out which are accurate and which ones are merely assumptions. For example, you may be wondering about a new job or career and when an idea comes to mind, you assume it won’t pay well or be flexible enough for your needs. Then poof! goes this possibility, deflated by assumptions that may not hold true in the real world.

If a particular idea keeps coming back to you, you should evaluate it in the following ways:

  • Be clear about your criteria for your career or work transition including what you want in a work environment; skills to emphasize, topics or areas of the marketplace that interest you; compensation and benefits; and desired work culture.
  • Do research on the option and determine whether or not it has the potential to fit  what you want. (Typically, you’ll get the most accurate information from people who are doing the job.)
  • Set up informational meetings with several people who do this type of work so you’ll have an accurate picture of it from which to make a decision

Why not begin by asking yourself, “What color is my job?”. Then consider what that color conveys about your current feelings and whether or not you need to make a change in your work life.

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